Individual therapy · California

Individual therapy for when you can’t find the words.

Overwhelm, anxiety, a transition that knocked you off balance, or a relationship pattern you keep repeating. You don’t need a neat explanation to start. Finding the words is part of the work.

What people bring

Common reasons to start

  • Anxiety and emotions that feel too big to manage
  • A life transition: a move, a breakup, a new role, a loss
  • Relationship strain, or the same painful pattern with different people
  • Questions of identity and belonging, especially between cultures
  • Stress, exhaustion and feeling stuck
  • A harsh inner critic that never clocks out

Approach

How I work with individuals

Present-moment awareness

From Gestalt therapy: what is happening right now, in your body, in your voice, in the room, often says more than the story about it. We slow down enough to notice.

Practical tools

From cognitive behavioral therapy: concrete strategies for the thoughts and habits that keep anxiety and low mood going, and for regulating strong emotions when they arrive.

Understanding your relational map

From attachment-informed therapy: how your earliest relationships shaped what you expect from people now, and how to update that map.

Building on what works

From strength-based and solution-focused therapy: you have already survived a great deal. We identify what helped and use it deliberately.

If part of what you are carrying is a life lived between countries or languages, see therapy for immigrants and expats.

Questions

Individual therapy FAQ

How do I know if I need therapy?
You don’t need a crisis or a diagnosis. If something keeps taking up space in your mind or your relationships, and talking to friends is no longer enough, that is reason enough to start.
What happens in the first session?
We talk about what brought you in, some of your history, and what you would like to be different. You can ask me anything about how I work. There is no test to pass and nothing to prepare.
Can I switch between English and Russian?
Yes. Many bilingual clients do, sometimes mid-sentence. Which language you reach for, and when, can tell us something useful.
How often would we meet?
Most people begin with weekly sessions, because momentum matters early on. We can revisit the rhythm as things change.
Is what I say confidential?
Yes, with the limited exceptions set by law, which I explain before we begin. As a trainee I discuss my work with my clinical supervisor, who is bound by the same confidentiality.

Next step

Find the words. Start with a short, free call.

English or Russian, your choice. No pressure and no commitment.

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